As humans we hold onto many things, we in large part live in our past, holding onto our childhood trauma. We define ourselves by what has happened to us, not by who we are authentically, and individually, the way we came into the world.
We define ourselves by what has happened to us, how others treat us, we are controlled by our external world, be it our peers, the media and so on. We are controlled by what we are not. We give up are whole lives to playing the victim, to abuse, and manipulation, never getting the chance to be what it is to be who we really are. To live authentically as a individual soul.
Do we want to continue living like this ?
We have to really ask ourselves do we want to continue living like this, to endure this, to define our entire existence this way, to be addicted to this old way of being. To continue to have this mindset- it’s the mind, our psychological landscape that can be changed, made anew. Our mind is the architect of the body.